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Discovering Joyful Living: A Personal Reflection

You know, it’s so easy to say, “I want to be joyful” but what exactly does that mean?

I remember speaking on the topic of “Joy” at a women’s retreat. One of the sessions was titled “Joy in the Journey”. Now, anyone who knows me is aware it’s not the journey that does it for me…

It’s THE RESULTS!!!

I am definitely a results oriented person. I find great pleasure in immediate gratification. The journey is equivalent to waiting and waiting is not one of my strong suits! With that said, I was given the word “Joyful” for 2025. I definitely better figure this out before the year is up…My days are fleeting! Heck 2024 came and went before I realized it!

So with that said, I guess a good place to start is with the definition of Joyful.

JOYFUL: experiencing pleasure, satisfaction, or delight

Hmmm…based on that definition, I would say I’m pretty joyful. Well, most of the time. Uh, well, I guess it would depend on the circumstances. Heck, who knows…some days it’s like a roller coaster. One minute I’m up and experiencing pleasure, feel satisfied or am delighted. the next, I’m serious, hyper focused, or distracted. I’m pretty sure my word for 2025 should have been “Complex”!!! Oh wait, where’s the growth in that…I’m already “Complex”. I’m pretty sure God wants me to focus on being JOYFUL and that means…I GOT WORK TO DO!!!

So, Welcome to My Journey to Discovering Joyful Living!

Now, hear me…I am not saying I am not joyful. I do have episodes of joyfulness just not consistently. I’m also not saying you don’t have a joyful life but what I am saying is… we all go through seasons. So, if you are going though a dry season please join me on my journey.

Come on…Let’s get started!

Now this is where I get stuck! Only on the 1st paragraph of the “journey” and I’ve already hit a major pothole. It’s at this point I could go in so many different directions!!!

So, usually when I’m looking for answers I go to Google and search for scriptures. Yep, while I take into account what other people say, I want to know what God’s word says. So, like a good soldier I typed in “Scriptures on Joyful”. Several verses came up. Many had the word joy but one particular scripture had the word “Joyful” and really resonated with me. It’s probably because I was recently diagnosed with Spondylosis.

Proverbs 17:22 “A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones” .

Wow…Spondylosis is a chronic condition that refers to the gradual wearing down of the spine’s cartilage and bones. A supple and strong bone is much more difficult to wear down or break. Yep, over the course of my life, my spirit has been crushed.

I know I’m not the only one! Gosh look at those effected by Hurricane Helene or the wildfires in California. Bless their hearts, those people literally lost everything!!! So, please hear me, in no way am I making light of their pain and suffering. But, we too are on a journey and our pain and heaviness is very real as well. Things like…

Loss of a child, spouse, parent, grandparent, friend: Gosh, I’ve experienced the loss of each and the pain never leaves. I will say, that over time, the wound is no longer as fresh. None the less, the loss does leave scars for life.
Catastrophic losses like storms, earthquakes, hurricanes, floods and fires: I can say, I’ve had my fair share of hurricanes and flooding. I’ve been effected by 2 floods in my life. Both were hard but the flood when I was 12 years old was the worst. I lost my sense of security and safe place. It was the structure not people that made me feel secure growing up. I guess that’s why home is so important to me even today.
Loss of relationships: It’s painful loosing a relationship with a loved one or a friend. Sometimes the loss isn’t always a falling out but instead a drifting away. Either way, there is a loss or disconnect and it can weigh you down. Now, I would like to say that sometimes this isn’t a bad thing. It just may be God’s protection on your life or emotional well-being.
Hurt Feelings: Oh my, I could go on forever on this one!!! I am here to tell you, my feelings have been hurt more times than I can count. For me the hurt is typically caused by setting my expectations too high. Or, because I make it all about me. Or, I just don’t consider the source and where they’ve been or what they’ve been through. And, then sometimes…People are just mean!!! Emotions are a bugger!!!

This list could go on for days but I think I’m unstuck. I finally know the direction I need to go!

I need to remember those things that bring me pleasure, what gives me satisfaction and who or what delights me. Then for 2025, I need to expand my list!!!

So, here’s my current list of things which lend to my joyful life:

Excursions with Richard
- Taking a drive
- Having lunch
- Running errands
- Stopping in at a winery
Time with Family
Time Alone with God
Relaxing at Home
Baking
Working in our Yard
Working in the Garden
Sitting out by the fire pit
Coffee on the porches
Walks on the property
Driving around the property in the side by side
Painting furniture and decor
Floral design
Writing

Yes, I know that is a pretty long list. Just so you know, I could go on and on but for the sake of time…I’ll stop!

I have been so incredibly blessed by reflecting on this list. In fact, my mind was completely redirected from those things that I’ve been though (both shared and not shared).

I Think I’m Having an “Ah Ha” Moment!!!

By changing my focus from trials to triumphs, my tests to testimonies, and suffering to healing it will yield a joyful life

Now for the hard part… I must remember to say “Ah Ha!!!” during my meltdown. I should also try to do this in a crisis or when dealing with that person who has hurt me.

My prayer for you is God will restore you to a joyful state and continue to pour out His Blessings on Your Life ❤

2024 Year in Review: A Journey of Gratitude

Dec29

Each year I ask God to give to me a word for the year. In 2024 that word was GRATITUDE. This entire year I’ve had so much gratitude for all of the beautiful blessings gifted to us. We love living near Brandi and Robi, and having Cheyenne and David close by. We have such a peaceful home with scenic views and surrounded by nature. We’ve also had a few adventures along the way. We have been blessed with so much but it feels like the year flown by. Yet it blows our minds when we think about all we’ve done in such a short time.

We moved to Roan Mountain last December. The interior of the house was completed just in time for us to move in and get settled before Christmas. It was wonderful but to say the exterior was a hot mess was an understatement! We had a makeshift driveway and there were mounds of dirt everywhere. The yard looked like a construction dump sight. Then to make matters worse there were natural springs running out of the mountain creating a muddy mess. So, in January the focus was for the contractors to construct the retaining wall.

Meanwhile, we were trying to get acclimated to the ICE & SNOW!!!

As for my Mom…She Absolutely Loves Watching it Snow!!!

In February the Work on the Retaining Wall Continued

The footer was formed, concrete poured, and the blocks were laid despite the rain and active springs!

February was also a time of celebration. We got to celebrate our granddaughter, Cheyenne’s 24th Birthday in our new home.

Now That Was a Great Memory!!!

Then during March and April, the construction of the wall continued until completion. Also, Brandi and Richard started work on the garden. Oh man, what an undertaking that was!!!

Progress on The Wall

Prep Work on The Garden

Then towards the middle of April we noticed things were really greening up. It was so beautiful. But, we had a lot of cleanup to do before the crew arrived to do our dirt work.

Also during April, I started learning a lot about foraging. Cheyenne and David took us out and taught us how to forage for morel mushrooms.

OH MY…Talk About Yummy!!!

Oh, and we did a little hiking in with Brandi.

We LOVE Her Sense of Adventure!

In May, we began to hear the rumble of motorcycles heading up the mountain to Carver’s Gap. As the weather got warmer, the motorcycles got louder and yep, you guessed it!

Richard Bought a Trike!!!

May was also the month the dirt work was done. The yard was hydroseeded and a proper driveway was put in…Finally, it was time to start work on walkways and flower beds!!!

June and July was spent outdoors working in the yard and garden. It was glorious!!! We laid five pallets of flagstone. Then, created flower beds. We then set up the fire pit area. It was nice working outside while being surrounded by the splendid beauty of God’s creation!!!

June was also when our grandson Brandon, Sarah, Payton, and Skylar flew in for a visit. Family hikes and sitting out by the fire pit made for some great memories!

Then towards the end of June and into July harvest season was upon us. Not only did we have to gather the produce but also preserve it all. So, I canned, dehydrated, froze, and baked A LOT!!! It was definitely a learning curve for me and I had to be quick study…The produce was not gonna wait!!!

Then in July everything came to an immediate halt!!! Now, July thru August was not a good memory. It was a memory that made an impact on our lives nonetheless. One day after some strenuous work in the yard, I noticed my back was sore. So, I took some Aleve and applied ice. After about a week it started feeling a little better so I decided to bake some chocolate chip cookies. I pulled the cookie sheet from the oven. As I turned to put them on the island, I went down in excruciating pain. This pain was like none I had ever experienced before!!! Richard had gone to get the mail. Mom was still in bed asleep. I tried to call Richard, Brandi, and Robi…No answer! Then I remember making my way to the couch while sending a 911 text to everyone. Brandi called me back instantly and before I knew it they were all three standing in our living room. To sum it up, an ambulance took me to the trauma center in Johnson City. There, they discovered I had severe stenosis on the left at L5-S1 foramina and spinal canal. They also found a cyst on my spine. Also, my vertebra at L4 had slipped forwards over the S1 vertebra. I was referred to a neurosurgeon and scheduled for surgery a month out. During that time, the doctor’s office worked to get a pre authorization for the surgery. The procedure was going to be over $200,000.00!!!

At this point, I would like to interject that I can’t say enough good about my coverage!!! We were extremely nervous because it was not conventional coverage but a Christian Program called WeShare. They are amazing, kind, and they really care!!! At first, we were told my surgery would not be covered. Many phone calls were made. Due to the work of an amazing employee at WeShare, my final out of pocket ended up being $5,000! Folks…THAT WAS GOD!!!

Also during this time, I was told I could not lift, bend, or twist. It was impossible for me to care for my Mom. Bless her heart, she was so understanding and agreed to stay at our local nursing facility as a respite patient. Aug 22nd I had my surgery and after a couple days in the hospital, I was sent home to recuperate. I was to wear a brace for 8 weeks, no lifting, bending, or twisting.

Meantime, Mom was still in the nursing facility. She was struggling to adapt to having a room mate. The sleep wake cycles did not match hers. She was having difficulty with the food, and being away from us. So, we made the decision to bring her home two weeks after my surgery. Now let me be clear… There was no way Mom would come home but for Richard’s willingness to help with her care. Mom also has a care giver that comes in 10 hours a week…She is AMAZING and Mom loves her dearly. So, between the three of us we have worked out a routine. This has allowed Mom to be back with us. For that… I am eternally grateful!!!

Mom Says, “There’s No Place Like Home!!!“

Then just as we thought things were about back to “Normal”, Hurricane Helene hit! Now, I have lived on the Gulf Coast most all my life. I have never experienced the effects of a hurricane on the coast like we did here in Tennessee with Helene. The aftermath was and continues to be devastating for so many in this area. The Doe River runs through our daughter and son-in-law’s property. Though it’s a small river, it is a force to be reckoned with when it floods!!!

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Though we were surrounded by devastation, we realized how incredibly blessed we were…All our family and their animals were not harmed!!!

After hurricane Helene, September, October, and November were dedicated to cleanup and continued healing. At my 8 week doctor’s visit I was released from the back brace. Then on the next visit I was released to ride on the motorcycle again.

Praise God…Just in time for Fall Foliage!!!

Then in Late November We Also Got Our 1st Snow!!!

The holidays were quiet for us. Brandi and Robi spent both Thanksgiving and Christmas with family in Texas. We definitely miss them when they’re away. Nevertheless, we do get to spend a lot of quality time with our Tennessee family and grand critters year round. WE LOVE THAT!!!

Well, that’s a wrap! 2024 is coming to a close and 2025 will be here in a couple of days. I guess the old saying stands true… “TIME FLIES WHEN YOUR HAVING FUN“

WE’VE HAD A BLAST IN 2024

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FOR THAT WE EXPRESS OUR GRATITUDE!!!

Wishing Each and Everyone a Happy, Healthy, and Prosperous New Year!

Gonna Enjoy a Harvest

Feb27

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I recently arrived home after a long day of work to find my precious husband tilling up a garden. I watched as he held tight to the powerful piece of machinery while it jerked and pulled him around what was soon to be the garden. Then I noticed every once in a while he would hit a patch of grass that would propel the tiller forward several feet and at times he would bog down into the grass. It became apparent the challenge was the grass and it must be removed before he could continue. So, I grabbed a rake and went to town removing the loosened grass so he could concentrate on preparing the soil to receive the crop he was about to plant.

As I was raking the grass out of the soil, it dawned on me I had a lot of work ahead of me. Then I realized much everything in life is similar to planting a garden. We must break up the roots, rake out the unwanted vegetation, prepare the soil, create the order, plant the seed, water and feed the plants. Then, we will finally be able to harvest and enjoy the crop!!!

Break Up The Roots

The roots of the grass holds the soil in place. These roots were embedded at different levels in the soil; some were on the surface while others were deep. During the first passes of the tiller only the surface roots were broken loose. Then as the grass was removed and the next pass was made the deeper roots were loosened so they could be more easily removed from the soil.

These roots represent emotions that are trapped in the fabric of our being. If we work to remove the surface emotions we are then able to dig deeper and clear those deep embedded emotions.

Prepare the soil

Once the grass is cleared then the tiller must make multiple passes in order to break down the dirt clods and soften the soil. In doing so the tender shoots are able to push through the soil covering with ease.

In much the same way we must break down the beliefs and opinions that were formed and are bound by the roots of emotions. By breaking down the opinions and beliefs based on negative emotion we prepare ourselves to receive new thought processes and belief systems.

Create the Order

If you were to go out to the garden and toss out a handful of seeds it would be quiet difficult harvest the plants. Without designated areas to walk it becomes difficult to access the plants at time of harvest. It would also be difficult to know where to step to prevent trampling the plants. Finally, rows and mounds also helps to ensure maintenance is easily maintained and ongoing weeding can take place. Therefore it is very important to create rows and mounds to ensure boundaries are established for your precious seedlings.

Such is the purpose of order in our lives. Without order, chaos sets in and before we know it the negative emotions begin to sprout up just as weeds in a garden. Without defined borders and boundaries it is difficult to identify the emotions before the roots become deep-seated and begin to take over our lives again.

Plant the Seed

Before you plant you must first decide what you would like to harvest. For example…if you expect to harvest tomatoes you certainly would not plant okra. In addition to deciding what you want you must also know where to plant and how deep to place the seed. Certain plants should not be planted next to each other as the mild flavored crops can take on the flavor of a bolder tasting crops. Example…Bell Peppers and Jalapenos.

We should plant those things which we wish to harvest in our lives. If you want to receive love then you must sow love, patience…sow patience, mercy…sow mercy. Do you want to plant negativity and negative emotions (weeds)? I think not! Instead plant the pleasant, kind, loving, and Godly attributes you want to see harvested in your life.

Water and Feed

Food and water are essential to all life.

Just as your precious seeds will not take root flourish and grow without water and food, positive and Godly attributes will not flourish in you life. So how do you water and feed your soul…Bath in prayer and Feed on the Word…

Bath in Prayer: The Bible instructs us to pray without ceasing…sounds tough but it is not!!! Just as if you were walking side by side with a human, He is there walking with you…Talk to Him!!! Praying is nothing more than an ongoing conversation with God. Praising Him, Thanking Him, Adoring Him, Telling Him what frustrates you, Asking Him for guidance, Conversing with Him…

Feeding on His word: Reading God’s word is vital for growth. The Bible is chalked full of examples, instructions, guidance, words of wisdom, and words of cautions which we can draw from. God’s word is a lamp unto our feet and a light to our path…It is the single most important nutrient to the growth of our mind and soul…

If you are bathing in prayer and feeding on God’s word it also helps keep out the weeds!!!

Harvest the Crop

Awe…Finally, the moment we have waited for! Harvest time…A time to reap what we have sown, fed, watered, nurture, and protected; the Sweet juicy tomatoes, golden corn, huge meaty eggplants, tender green beans, or flavorful yellow crook-neck squash.

Just as it is time to harvest the fruits of your beautiful garden, in due time you will begin to enjoy the bounty of all the Godly characteristics, pleasant thoughts, and positive emotions you have fed, watered, nurtured and protected in your being!!!

So…It is time to break up the roots, rake out the unwanted vegetation, prepare the soil, create the order, plant the seed, water and feed the plants so, you can enjoy the harvest!!!

Love Lee ♥

Sow for yourselves righteousness, reap the fruit of unfailing love, and break up your unplowed ground; for it is time to seek the LORD, until he comes and showers righteousness on you. Hosea 10:12

Welcome to My Garden

Sep16

If it is to be…it is up to me! If I have learned one thing, it is my happiness and joy is comes from the Lord. He has never left me stranded, let me down, or shunned me. He has taught me to rely on Him and not people.God has given me an incredible imagination and the gift of creativity so my garden of life is absolutely beautiful…full of color, life, and lush! There is no room for wilted flowers in my garden to muttle things.

To those who are willing to enter my garden bearing healthy thoughts and comments; WELCOME!

If you are carrying wilted flowers of negativity; please drop them in the compost pile and pick up a lush, healthy, and thriving plant to bring in with you when you enter. WELCOME TO MY GARDEN

Love Lee ♥